Spanking A Man - My Favorite Implement

Everyone into spanking seems to have an implement that they prefer. For many it is the implement they were punished with growing up, or it may just be the like the way it feels when it is used on them. Those that are the spankers also have their favorites. There are so many implements out there now, and with the internet it is easy to get just about anything that suits your tastes. For me, I have different implements that I like for different situations. For the most part, especially when applying a proper punishment, I like an implement that is the most effective overall. I also like to use an implement that leaves a long lasting impression. Especially when punishing someone who likes to be spanked, I think it is important to use an implement that will leave them sore for many days to come. People into the scene like the feel of being spanked. During the course of the punishment, their body rages with endorphins which often makes the spanking easier to deal with. But if we want to make a lasting impression that will be with them beyond the initial excitement of the spanking, we need to choose our implement wisely.

Hairbrush Spankings For Men

In the situation above, a hairbrush is always my first choice. As I have discussed before, very few implements conjure up fear as quickly in the mind of those about to be punished as a wooden hairbrush. In my many years of spanking, there have been very few times that when the person being spanked was allowed to choose the implement, that they chose the hairbrush. hairbrushs sting, they sting a lot. I find it to be a very versatile implement that can be used in any situation. In does not matter the position, a person’s pain tolerance, or their state of dress, I can apply the hairbrush as gentle or as severe as I need to. It can be used moderately for a prolonged punishment or it can achieve the desired results in five swats or less. To apply a wooden hairbrush safely, the target area is the very lowest part of the bottom. This also serves the purpose of making the spot that touches a seat when they sit, the very sorest. A hard paddling will leave someone’s bottom sore for as many as five days. The marks from a severe paddling can last for several weeks, further serving as a reminder of their bad behavior. If I could only choose a single implement to use in all punishment situations, it would be a hairbrush.

Please remember that any implement in the hands of someone who does not have the experience to use it properly can be dangerous, even when only applied to the bottom.

F/M Spanking - Controlling The Man During A Real Spanking

Not every man responds to f/m spankings in the same way. Some men take their f/m spankings very well. They automatically accept the fact that they are being spanked for their own good. They follow the woman’s instructions to the letter. They undress promptly and without complaint. They place themselves over the woman’s lap, presenting their bottoms obediently. When their f/m spanking starts, they do not squirm and struggle in a vain attempt to escape their spanking. Instead, they submit obediently to their spanking, despite the embarrassment and shame of the spanking they are receiving from the woman. At some stage of the spanking process, such men are brought to tears and begin to cry in a deep emotional release that cleanses their hearts and activates their naturally submission.

Real F/M Spankings, Bare Ass'd And Intense!

Men who take their f/m spankings well are usually characterized by the relative quietness with which they submit to their spankings. Not only do they not struggle nor attempt to block the woman as she spanks their bottom, but they also submit to their spanking without making a lot of noise, apart from the inevitable tears and sobbing that mark the beginning of the release process.

One of the worst forms of male misbehavior during a f/m spanking relates to the amount of noise made by the spanked man. This misbehavior is not related to whether he is crying or not. Some men naturally cry rather loudly, while others sob more quietly.

But some men hide their rebellion, their disrespect and their disobedience behind a hysterical kind of yelling or loud noise that they utter during discipline. They may wait until their tears start to flow before yelling, or their yells may begin long before their sobs. Such men may even think it is a “macho” form of resistance to the woman’s authority to yell when she spanks him. They think that, “She can spank me if she wants, but I am going to pay her back by yelling as if I am being murdered.!”

This yelling is more than just loud crying or sobbing. It is an active attempt on the man’s part to disrupt and undermine the spanking process. It is a form of active rebellion. It is a way for him to demonstrate his disrespect for his tops authority.

Yelling is a way for a man to enlist male help in an emergency situation. If a man is in a state of extreme danger, fright or risk, he will instinctively yell in order to attract potential rescuers to his aid. The piercing nature of a man’s yell will cut through many other types of noise, alerting people nearby that someone is in grave danger.

So when a man starts yelling without genuine reason during his discipline, he is creating a kind of false alarm. He is misusing his natural ability to yell in a loud voice when serious danger threatens him. He is attempting to use his woman’s protective instincts to discourage her from spanking him any further.

A man who yells during his punishment is creating a false sense of emergency. This is selfish, childish and wrong. There is no real emergency. The only thing that is happening is that the man is being spanked to tears for his own good. His woman is not trying to kill him. She is trying to help him - to enable him to have a cathartic emotional experience that will restore him to a more peaceful, loving and harmonious state of mind and heart.

Nonetheless, it is the woman’s responsibility to determine whether a genuine emergency does exist. She loves her man and cares for his welfare, so she will naturally not want him to come to serious harm. She should stop spanking him when he starts to yell. If his yelling stops, it is usually a good indication that his yells were disobedient, disrespectful and dishonest, rather than a sign of a real emergency. If he still keeps yelling, she can ask him what the problem is. If he continues to yell, she can administer a few short, sharp slaps to his bottom and address him in a much sterner tone. This will usually get his attention and return him to a more obedient state. Questioning him about his yelling is usually the fastest way to discover what the real problem is, if indeed there is any problem at all.

If this is the first time that the man has ever yelled during his f/m spanking, he can be warned once about the consequences of yelling when there is no valid emergency situation. Some women will let him off for a first offense, after ensuring that he has been clearly warned of what will happen the next time he yells without justification. It is important that this verbal warning be clearly stated and obviously understood by the man, since he will not be given a second chance.

As many other articles about F/M spankings have already emphasized, crying during discipline is a highly positive outcome for the man. Tears and sobbing are a natural part of the f/m spanking process. They enhance the man’s experience of his f/m spanking, producing a more effective emotional catharsis and enabling the man to achieve full emotional release.

How to Tell Your Wife You Want To Be Really Spanked!

I’ve spent a lot of time reading everything I can find on F/M spanking relationships. I’ve read a lot of posts by men who are frustrated and don’t know how to tell their wife what it is that they want and crave.

So, I decided to write a little F/M Spanking “Primer” from a wife to guys that a guy could copy, edit and print off. Then place it under his wife’s coffee mug some morning….
No, better place it on top of the mug otherwise she might not see it. Then all you’ll have to do is place a nice hairbrush or other scary implement on her pillow or dresser and patiently wait for the fireworks to start.

A Real F/M Spanking In Progress

So here is how to tell you’re wife you want her to spank you.
The reason you are reading this is because the man in your life has something to tell you that he doesn’t know how to vocalize. How can that be? For as long as you’ve known him, he certainly has never before been at a loss of words. Well this subject can be sensitive, he doesn’t know how you will react or what you will think of him. He wants to change the doubt that he has for this and any other subject, he wants to build a firm foundation of trust and communication for not only this subject but for all subjects so he can know that he can talk to you about anything. Ok, this is already starting to sound like it’s going to be a major pain in the butt, well it will be a lot of work and require a major time commitment for both of us. Let me assure you, it certainly will be a major pain in the butt, the good news it won’t be your butt.

A Strong Man
Your man is probably a strong confident man of character, perhaps well educated but none the less he just about always knows what he wants and seldom if ever hesitates to do whatever is necessary. If he works outside the home he may hold a position of authority with responsibilities that he handles skillfully and or charge of a number of employees. So how can it be that a man who may be strong in so many ways has such a difficult time letting you know what he really wants you to now do. Because, there are sometimes things he doesn’t want to be strong about, at least without your help. There’s something that he wants you to do instead… he wants you to take a more active part in your relationship. He wants you to hold him accountable for his safety, attitude and responsibilities. If he endangers himself, or anyone else for that matter by doing something foolish like driving home after having too many cocktails with his friends… Well, he wants you to take action that will prevent him from ever doing it again! If he was moody, rude, or down right bitchy to you, or for that matter anyone… Well he wants you to take action that will make him think twice next time before opening his mouth and inserting foot. If he kept putting off writing the check for the credit card and now it’s late… Well he wants you to take action that will make him want to get those things done that he knows he has to do. He wants you to teach him a lesson that he will be able to remember for a long, long time.

There are other things too.
The next time you two argue, he wants you to put your foot down and lay down the law that there won’t be any more arguing. He wants you to say “That will be quite enough, we’ll talk about this later when cooler heads prevail!”. He doesn’t want you to make a major decision without his input or agreement, but he does want you to take control of the debate when it’s in danger of being an argument. He wants you to take action. No stupid, not action on the subject, action on the method of conversation. If he should fail to respect your decision that it wasn’t a conversation, if he doesn’t accept and respect your opinion that no progress was being made, just the same points being berated and restated in louder volumes. If he fails to respect you in any manner during the incident he wants you to take action so that he’ll never do that again. If he does ever forget in the future, he wants to know that you will not tolerate it without consequences. You see he’s not asking you to make his decisions for him, he’s looking for emotional support and a somewhat constant reinforcement of care and love with your consistent involvement in how you communicate. Now go back and reread this paragraph at least three times, and take notes… no hi-liter on the monitor please.

He's About Ready To Start Crying!

Why does he want these things?
Because as a man the most sensual and powerful attractant that draws him to you is his respect for you. No, forget it, it’s not your pride and joy swinging hiding between your legs, he would happily settle for a less lovely woman, if there is such a thing. It’s not your magical fingers that he enjoys so much. No, it’s not those things that you do with your tongue either. All those things are icing, the real cake is the leadership that you can, or rightfully should provide him as a man. He wants to respect you. He also wants you to respect him, but you already knew that, he’s probably screamed it at you a hundred times. The good news here if you so choose, you can take action to insure that he never screams at you again, well he might, once.

What brings these things out in a man?
Simple, if you didn’t notice he’s different from you. No, not just those spots. He thinks differently than you do. Much of what goes on in his mind can become a mix of uncontrollable emotions that build up to an intolerable level, he’s not happy, he might be confused, he wants you to help him. He does know what he wants, he wants to let all of it go with a good cry. He wants to be leaning on your shoulder, telling you everything, sobbing and clearing him head and heart of all the pent up emotions and unsaid things, having you listen, having you forgiver him, having you tell him it will all be alright. In other words dim-wit… he wants you to spank him. No, not sensual play although he might like that too. He wants a real old fashioned over the knee, you’re going to remember this for a long, long time and never do it again butt stinging, bottom throbbing cheek burning spanking. However before you even think about giving him what he wants and needs you really do need to know how to do it right. No, you do not. Pay attention and do some other research elsewhere too. If you do it wrong, it will make things much worse and you’ll never be able to explain it to the domestic relations people.

Now you have to be asking yourself why in the world would a man who’s committed to protecting you, want you to spank him?
Well, he doesn’t really want you to cause him extreme pain, he doesn’t want to be hurt at all. In fact if you do it properly he will be crying, screaming and begging you to stop, but you can not. He knows it’s going to be painful for him and an experience that he in fact really doesn’t want to have. He does however know that it does have to happen for the sake of the relationship. He knows that his sore bottom will bring a rush of tears and eventually a flood of emotions out that will give him a much needed release. Ultimately he will gain a new found respect for the woman who loves him enough to spank him for his own good and the good of your relationship.

What is all this about?
It doesn’t really matter what name you give it though this is commonly known as Erotic Spanking. It borrows some terms and methods from BDSM, but that’s about where the connection ends. There are limitless variations and some refer to it as being “Taken in Hand”. Often associated with the Queen’s English way of referring to these actions, such as “Her husband’s punishment for the incident, when she promptly took matters in hand”.

What is it not?
As you read the hundreds of works available on the Internet you will likely find hundreds of opinions on this. Whatever it’s worth, this really is not a licensed subsidiary of BDSM. You may or may not have had experience with BDSM, it really is a very large, broad label that covers what seams to be a limitless number of activities. BDSM often involves pleasure gained by giving discipline or being disciplined, binding or being bound, enjoying the heightened pleasure brought on by the flow of endorphins in response to pain. Arousal from getting or giving power or pain, it doesn’t need a reason, it just works toward the goal of heightened sexual pleasure.

Maybe He’s A Secret Spanko
Could it be that the reason that he wants to be spanked is that he just gets some kinky pleasure from being spanked? Well in all honesty, maybe. Some men do derive sexual excitement at the thought of being ged. But if that’s all he wanted, that’s all he would have asked for. No matter what he probably will be sexually aroused by the thought of you spanking him. Many men who actively practice a F/M spanking lifestyle with their mate report that the thought of their significant other taking action is what excites them, not the pain.

Real F/M Spanking Tied To A Table

Why spanking?
There may very well be times that you don’t even have to spank your partner if that’s what’s right for you and your partner at the time. Many couples integrate other forms of sex play their relationship. Few things, other than spankings, bring that instant rush of tears that a good spanking will. They will however remind him of your authority, the authority that he freely and willingly gives you. Remember that behavior is not in the butt, the butt is simply a very effective conduit to the brain. The required submission, humiliation and sting of a spanking are all pointed at the brain.

Fairness and Consistency
Trust and Communication are absolutely paramount as you move together to this lifestyle. This isn’t a one way street, it happens with him consent. That’s right, he’s giving you permission to control his behavior, and he has the right to revoke it at any time. That’s not likely to happen unless you fail to do your job properly and that’s with fairness and consistency. As you begin to research this topic you will notice that many women who spank their men, actually enjoy it.

Doesn’t seem fair does it?
Well for a very few couples it’s not. The man just might find himself over his ladies knee someday too. Stop grinning, if you are one of those couples you just might find yourself unable to walk or sit for a day or two… or more. Bouncing around on the internet you are likely to find a thing called “The Spencer Plan”, not sure if it’s real or fake, but there are actually couples that follow some form of household similar to it. Allegedly composed by a woman doctor in the early half of the 20th century the Spencer Plan states that a wife must always be spanked bare hand while a husband must always be whipped with a leather strap or paddle. This justice is administered for infractions determined by their contracts to one another.

My Real MILF Natural Breasts On Display

This post isn’t about just me giving men spankings. Because when ever I give a man a spanking, I let him play with my bare breasts. I just thought it would fun to share with you my newest post on my site at Molly’s Sexy Nails. My fans, through my forum, requested an entire big full feature set of just me and my breasts. Of course I did one, I always try to do special requests that my fans submit. Now, joining my forums is free, no charge at all. All you need is a legitimate email address which I never share with anyone. It just lets me send you update information and stuff about me.

My two big forums are “Molly’s Really Spanked Men” and “Molly’s Sexy Nails Handjobs”. They’re both really active and filled with fun loving people and couples like yourself.

Men always comment how hard my nipples get!

So anyway, yes - I bared my breasts. They’re all natural and have been appreciated by many men, in many different ways. My husband took the pictures and yes my boyfriend was there for the whole session. He was so horny by the time we were done! I told him “Too Bad, I’ll just have to do a feature handjob and spanking with him before long”. There’s even pictures of my boyfriend feeling my bare breasts up, it’s one of his favorite things to do while my husband watches and takes pictures.

I wore a new pair of very soft and silky black pajamas and the top was either open or off for all the pictures. My husband helped me fill my fans requests by posing me in every possible position and pose, all with my breasts clearly visible for your enjoyment. There’s also some extreme close ups of just my nipples. The nipples every man loves to suck. The nipples that breast fed my kids. If you haven’t found my “Molly’s Sexy Nails Forum” yes just click here. If you’ve never visited one of my sites, you’ll find them here at “Molly’s Sexy Nails Handjobs” or “Really Spanked”.

Yes, I really do it! I give my boyfriend handjobs and spanking. I do the real deal, no fakes here like most most web sites. So if you’d like to see a real live amateur MILF having fun with her boyfriend - just come visit me.

Women Spanking Men - Giving Him His First Spanking!

You’re a woman, and you’ve never spanked a man before but would like to. What should you do?

In many ways, this is easier than wanting to be spanked yourself, because you can take a more active role. However, unless your man is already into receiving spankings, or unless your desires are satisfied by giving fairly mild spankings, you’ll probably want to talk to your partner about your desires sooner or later.

First, be clear about your desires. If you can’t get turned on except by giving a fairly severe spankings, you may well end up having to find someone who is already into being spanked. While most people can end up dealing with mild spankings, severe spanking is definitely not a taste that you can or should expect someone to acquire.

If you can be satisfied by giving playful, relatively mild spankings, however, there are still some issues to keep in mind.

First, before even thinking about the spanking, think about the emotional aspects. Never spank someone for a ‘real’ fault or mistake unless your relationship already has that aspect to it. Never suggest that your partner is submissive in any way, shape, or form, other than in taking a spanking, unless your relationship already has that aspect to it. Most importantly, learn and respect your partner’s preferences in dealing with a spanking; you’re already asking to do something different to your man; don’t push your man into bad emotional states at the same time!

Next, start slowly. The best ‘first swats’ is one that is given over some clothing as a teasing or playful gesture. This lets you measure your partner’s emotional reaction to spanking, and lets you decide if you want to press the issue. Be careful on those first few swats! A single spank that hits too hard might give your partner the idea that you’re into ‘pain’, not ’spanking’.

If your partner reacts well to these initial swats, you’ll want to bare his butt and try some more swats. If you do so, however, go slowly and be careful! Yes, it can be a bit embarrassing to admit that you would like to take your partner over your knee and administer a good spanking; it can be a lot worse to have to explain why you hurt him, either physically or emotionally.

In any case, patience is an absolute necessity. If your man isn’t ‘naturally’ into spanking, you have to make sure that every spanking you administer is a pleasant experience. Since the spanking itself my not be pleasant, make sure that your man always gets something pleasant out of the experience. This helps link your playful spankings to pleasure for your man, and will actually help your partner enjoy more and even harder spankings.

Work slowly, not just physically, but psychologically. If your partner ends up enjoying light spanks over his underwear, do not assume that your man will like the same ‘physical level’ of spanks on the bare bottom! There is little physical difference, but the psychological difference is immense.

Give Him A Treat After Spanking Him

When working on an uncertain person, spank fairly gently, and mix your hard spanks with softer ones, and with lots of rubbing and caresses. Even a person who doesn’t specifically like spankings might learn to enjoy a few hard swats to bring about a sting, followed by kisses and caresses for contrast.

Finally, and most importantly, let your man be your guide. Learn to read your partner for signs that say when you’re spanking too hard. Also learn to read your man for when you’ve actually gotten to the ‘right’ level of spanking! While your spankings may simply be something your partner ‘puts up with’ for the pleasure of being your lover, it’s even better if you both end up enjoying the spankings.

Getting A Spanking From Me

It’s Funny, but nobody ever asked me before, what I like to see when I spank a man. Usually all the pics in the net seem to be for the boys. I hardly find anything that makes ME smile, unless it’s a woman spanking a man.

I can’t help it, but I do like the male anatomy. I am into spanking, but I still like a mans body, especially his cock. Just because he has to be spanked, I am also aroused to see him naked. As a matter of fact, being in position over my knees, his bare butt in front of me, makes his nakedness even more erotic. There is very little left to my imagination in that position, I can see it all! His cock, his balls, and especially like his cute little brownish pucker.

I can clearly see his cock and balls!

Shame and embarrassment is part of every spanking. I always make it a point to run my hands over a mans bare butt and gently touch his anus and balls a few times. That’s why I prefer to spank a man when he is totally naked. I always tell him to undress completely, slowly and in front of me of course. It is funny to see how embarrassed men get undressing like that. Unlike in a sauna or on a nudist beach THIS kind of nudity is not natural and therefore anything else but harmless.

I’ve spanked a few men who are extremely hairy. I always make them shave first. I want their butt shaved of course, but also their entire genital area. Hair on a mans butt absorbs some of the impact. A hairless butt feels every swat the best. Sometimes I’ll watch him when he shaves his private parts. I like it, because it makes him look like the poor little boy he will be after I have finished my spanking. If I suspect he’s becoming aroused, I’ll stop the spanking and ask him to jerk off for me - and than spank him immediately after, when there is no arousal left.

Masturbating while I watch, than I spank him some more!

As he stands there nude, sometimes I tell him what the spanking will be like and I scold him. At other times I’ll just grab him and pull him over my lap, waiting until I have him in position before I explain anything to him. As I spank him, I get to see his balls from behind. Sometimes I just HAVE to grab and fondle them.

I have to admit - I like tears. This way I know he got my point and I know I can do whatever I want. I love to see a man kick and struggle on my lap as my swats hammer his butt. I’ll soon have him yelling and screaming, pleading for me to stop, as if he thinks I even care! I know from experience that the real spanking hasn’t even started until he’s crying.

When we’re done - he’s going to be sobbing mess with a very red, very sore butt. Sometimes he must not wear any pants for the rest of the day. Wich allows me to give him a little extra whenever it is needed. Every one or two hours a little reminder just to keep him in the, and so he can remember that I’m Molly and I’ve really spanked him!

Support Our Troops With A Spanking!

I’ve been getting various requests on my Spanking Forum from our troops fighting over in the deserts. We often forget about those guys, or at least I do. They’ve all left behind families, wives or girlfriends to do the job. I’m sure most of them don’t want to be there, I’m sure some do - but the most important thing we can do this time of year is support and give them something to smile about.

So, all you wives, girlfriends and really just any woman any place, here’s what I propose. Get the email address, land mail address of a soldier doing his job and send him some him a sexy picture of yourself! I’m sure they’re horny as hell, and just trying to do their job. If we all sent a few erotic picture to them it would make their day. I’m sure your husbands and boyfriends would approve - mine does! Here’s a link that will help you locate a deserving soldier: Soldiers Angels. It’s free of course, unless you want to send something special like a package.

Playing With Me Before I Spank Him

Here’s my contribution to the cause. Hey guys! Imagine that your naked and over my knees. You bare ass in the perfect position for a good spanking! You’d feel my soft little hands and long nails all over your butt as I prepare it. I’ll rub some baby oil all over your cheeks, letting my fingers wonder down your ass crack. Than suddenly I’ve got my hairbrush and you feel the first swat! It stings like hell and you jump with a little yelp! More follow and I’ve soon got your bare ass just a jumping and wiggling all over my lap! I won’t stop until I want to do! You’re getting a real spanking from me and I’m loving every minute of it!

Guys - stay safe, do your job, and please come home to us American girls that are waiting to fuck your nice hard cocks and spank your great bare butts! How about joining my Spanking Forum and posting some special requests that I can do just for you?

A Little Spanking Story

A big part of the fun on my site is my “Really Spanked Forum“. Members can post their own stories which are always fun to read. Here’s one from “CinciGuy”.

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First off, I would always get it in what I considered a very humiliating way. Over the knee, with my pants and underwear either down or off. It seemed like such a childish punishment, but my parents rarely varied from there ways. And I learned never to question them on the subject.

If momma was doing the spanking, she would use a large wooden hairbrush that must have been a hundred years old. But for more serious offences, my father would be called into action. And that would also mean his dreaded paddle.

I was always spanked the same way by him. He would call me down to the livingroom right before bedtime for a “discussion”. I’m not sure what I hated more, the long boring lecture or the actual spanking!

I was expected to be wearing my nightshirt, instead of pajama’s. I suppose it just made the whole process easier for when it came time for part 2 of the discussion, meaning the paddeling of my butt! For part 2 the same routine was always followed:

My father would sit in a straight back chair in the middle of the room and I would approach on his right hand side. Moma would usually be in the room too, either reading or doing her needlepoint. He would begin by taking his paddle in his right hand, while at the same time I was required pull my night shirt up high. This was the most embarrassing moments for me, full naked except for my night shirt pulled high up to my sholders!

Without being told I was expected to just lay over left knee.

He’s a big man, so with me being short and barely 100lbs my feet would always be off the floor. I would try to grab hold of the chair leg to steady myself since my hands couldn’t really touch the floor either, because the last thing you wanted to do was to move around while your getting it. He hated that and would quickly let you know… painfully too I might add!.

Then he would make the usual adustments by lowering his left leg so that my behind would stick up in the air a little more. I guess the reason for this was so he had the perfect target. Gulp! After I was arranged to his satisfaction, holding his paddle in his right hand he would rest it across my bottom while he began the second lecture. (sigh!)

This lecture would be rather quick and further to the point. He would say the standard: “I’m sorry I have to do this..” and the other one was “While your living under my roof you will obey my rules!” There must be some handbook out there for lines to say before a spanking, because my freinds who were also around my age, and who were also spanked, told me her parents said basically the same damn thing!

Anyways, after the lecture it was time to get down to business. He would give me a warning that he was about to start by saying, “Are you ready for this? To which I would always reply in my most innocent voice: “Yes daddy” and then shut my eyes tight.

The swat was the worst…. “sssSMACK!!”

It always felt like fire, as if I had just been branded! There would be a few seconds pause and then the second stroke.. “cccCRACK!!” as the paddle made contact with my bare bottom again.

The strokes would rain down in a steady relentless pace, and I would always do my best not to cry out and bawl like a baby. This proved to be impossible of course after the forth and fifth stroke, grasping at the chair leg so tight my knuckles were white, and at the same time trying to keep my knees together to save as much modesty as I could. But how in the hell can you be modest at a time like this!

He would keep a hold of me by either grabbing a big section of my nightshirt so that it was bunched up in the center of my back, or if I had a problem with bobbing up and down after each strap he would place his hand firmly around me.
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The paddle he had was old and showed signs of age, but it stung like blazes and would bite into my behind as if it had teeth! And the sound was unmistakable and echoed through the whole house. Sometimes I would be upstairs in my bedroom doing my homework when all of a sudden you would here that noise, “CRACK!!” from the livingroom. That would mean my sister was getting her fanny spanked! Listening, I would flinch after each loud swat, greatful it was her getting it this time, and not me!

Generally a good ol fashioned spanking from either Mom or Dad would last about 4 or 5 minutes, but trust me when I say this, it seemed much much longer! I have no idea how many swats I would get, all I knew was I wouldn’t be sitting down any time soon. After the last couple swats, the last being the hardest of course.. I think this is also in the parents spanking handbook..I would lay over their knee sobbing for another minute. Another rule was that I was not allowed off his knee until I had completely stopped crying. Sometimes after a hard spanking, you would be crying over thier knee for longer then when you were over their knee for the spanking in the first place!

So after the crying was out of the way, I’d have to get up, and we would exchange hugs followed by making me promise that I would be a good in the future. It never seemed to happen though, but I would always promise anyways. After the hug and promises the first thing I would do would be to reach up and pull night shirt down so it covered my very red butt. I would have to give them each one more hug and I would give each of them a kiss goodnight and it was off to bed. Sometimes my sister would come in and want me to show her my red butt. I always went into the bathroom and pulling my night shirt up, looked at my butt. It was usually a blazing red, once I could actually see Mommas hand prints! It would be safe to say I would sleep on my tummy after ALL of those “discussion” nights!

Make Your Own Paddle

There is no greater pleasure than asking a man to make the paddle which your going to spank him with. Imagine standing out in your workshop. Trying to figure our the shape and design. Cutting the wood and finishing it. Smoothing it out, removing the rough edges. Knowing all the time that it’s going to be the paddle that spanks you until you’re crying just like a naughty little boy cryies!

A Paddle For Spanking A Man, Made By Himself of Course!

It’s cheap, it works great, and it’s going to leave your man in tears. Start with a Ping-Pong paddle and just follow the pictures above. If this doesn’t put a tear in your mans eye, nothing will! For added effect remove the rubber covering and have him finish it to a smooth glossy surface. FUCKING OUCH!!!!! My Boyfriend says this baby will wake his ass up really fast!

My Favorite Paddles

I know women who spank men, who have a collection of what seems to be endless paddles. Now I’ll admit that I used to do that, but that’s before I knew what I was doing. I’ve narrowed my collection spanking implements down to the what I’d say is simply the most effective.

Paddles I Use To Spank Men

Of course there is my hairbrush. It’s a stingy Son-Of-A-Bitch! When I pull out the hairbrush my boyfriend starts to back up and his knees tremble. The sting from the hairbrush is legendary, it gives a spanking no man could ever forget!

Than there’s my Clear Plastic Paddle, better known as a Lexan paddle. My boyfriend has told me that nothing, and I mean nothing stings like this baby. It leaves a sting that dances around on a bare ass like little flames of fire. It’s light, it’s comfortable for me to you use, and it makes a man give in to me fast!

I think almost every woman who spanks a man has at least tried a Ping-Pong paddle. They’re cheap, they’re effective and stingy. The Ping-Pong paddle covers a pretty big area so the guy is going to last longer before submitting.

The Paint Stirrer! How many times have you passed this in your local hardware store and never thought anything about it. The narrow face of this mean little paddle will create a “Pain Zone” that will get your attention fast!

Remember as a kid when you used to play Paddle Ball? It was a paddle with a ball attached with a rubber band, you’d spend all day hitting that ball until it finally flew off into the bushes. Now - just remove the rubber band and pull out the staple. Nice and light weight it has sting, LOTS OF STING!

That wood paddle you see above - well I had my boyfriend make that for one of his spankings. He spent about a week cutting it out, sanding and finishing it. He gave it a finish that is smooth and glossy, just like I wanted him too. Than I took him over my knee. He’s learned to regret making that paddle. It burns like hell!

You’ll see me use all these paddles, my favorites, when I spank my men!

For most of my spankings I choose 2 paddles, more than that and it’s not a serious spanking. I choose one paddle to start with and use to warm the guys ass up. Warm up means to just “Wake It Up” and get some color in it. Than I choose another for the real spanking.

I use two paddles because a guys bare ass sort of get used to the feel of one paddle. If I use it too long it looses it’s effects on him. So than I switch paddles and “HELLO!”, we’re off to the races. If you’ve never been really spanked as an adult you have no idea what you’re missing! Come here! Get your pants down you naughty boy and get over my knee!!!!

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